How May D Turned Me Into A Punching Bag For Years- Baby Mama Explains

Oh dear! May D's baby mama, Debola has sent a mail
to blogger Linda Ikeji explaining how the man she
loved with everything for 8 years has turned her into
a punching bag. She says he beats her at the slightest
provocation and during his last assault she passed
out and almost lost her life.

Read her mail below;

My name is Debola I'm sure you know who I am, you
put me on ur blog about 3yrs ago, for tatooing a
Nigerian artist name on my body, I'm MayD's baby
Mama… I haven't come here to rant or make noise,
but to say some important things that I feel people
should know. I will try to make my story as short as
possible.

I was with MayD for 8years, which implies we were
together from the get-go, before his career began
and when nobody knew him obviously. For many
years I stayed with him, obviously as his girlfriend, I
supported him, financially, physically and
emotionally. Back then when I was in Babcock we
passed through loads of hurdles together being that
he was struggling and incapable of providing for
himself and I was obliged to supporting him
financially. Even when it was extreme, like giving him
a semester's tuition to pay for studio sessions while I
stupidly stayed at home, the things we do for love
right?I practically paused my life for him, for us at a
point. The sad part about this whole thing is that I
never got tired I did everything that was within my
reach. He stopped to cater for his kid a while ago,
which I took responsibilities for and started to do
diligently..

Now, like most relationships we had major problems
which included the frequent cheating and escapades
with girls which I obviously endured as I was
consumed by the "main chick" title. Not that I was
even getting any good thing in return, he never for
one day acknowledge me, or made me feel like we
were in a relationship together. I had no simple
freedom to do whatsoever on my own, be it business,
friendship etc.

The thing I couldn't cope with was the fact that he
beat me up at every slightest opportunity he had, he
beats me up like a man, he beat me up so badly
infront of our little boy all the time. He assaulted me
regularly, I suffered domestic violence in silence, and
this last time he beat me up so badly and I passed
out.. I saw my life flash right infront of me. I
witnessed been close to death, I prayed to survive
each time he pounced on me, damaging several
properties nd breaking diff stuff on my head.

This had to be my last experience, as I thought to
myself, who will take care of my child for me if I die
in his hands? Who will he call mother? Who will stand
by him? So I left the relationship hurriedly without
thinking of how much time, energy, resources that
must have been wasted….

PS( I av my tattoo removed already for those of you
that want to comment bullshit)……

PLS SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE….